Archives for June 2008

I Think We Need to Dehumidify the Basement

The dampness in our new basement really freaks me out. To tell the truth, when we did a walk-through a few months before we moved in, the whole house felt damp. It is either better from being lived in and the doors and windows opening and closing, or (eeps!) I’ve gotten used to it from being here for two years. The basement, however, still feels cold and damp to me. I’ve expressed my fears to Mark about mold and the dampness down there, and he thinks it is just fine. Having never had a basement, I am not sure if that is just how they all feel all the time.


Even if we did discover that there was a problem down there, I have no idea how an issue like that would be tackled. I mean, would it be some major construction job to fix it? I thought it might be, but, then, I was reading Oprah’s site last week and came across the answer. I was looking for a different story, but, I happened upon one with Dr. Mehmet Oz. Let me tell you, I just love this guy! I have both of his books with Dr. Roizen and I just love Dr. Oz’s style! Love it! And he was talking about keeping your house healthy. And he said that if your basement smells, then you do have a problem and you need a dehumidifier. Well – now how about that? I shudder to admit I don’t think I’ve ever really heard of dehumidifiers. We have lots of history with humidifiers. I’ve got a son with chronic nosebleeds and that is just about the only thing that helps.

As soon as I saw that, I knew we must have a problem. Our basement doesn’t smell horrible or anything, but, to someone with a bionic nose like mine – there is a bit of a damp odor down there. No one else has ever noticed it, though. I usually smell things long before the family does, however! Like the gas leaks in TWO different houses – that my husband blamed on postpartum hormones – both times. And he was wrong – both times. Ha! He says that I should work for the FBI with my damn nose! That’s for sure!

So I haven’t brought it up with him just yet, but, I have been doing a little reading about dehumidifiers. I’m learning a lot about them, like how you might need to have some kind of hose connection to empty the bucket. And if your room that it will be going in is fairly large, you will need a large capacity one. The large ones will obviously be a lot heavier, so that is why a hose would make it so much easier for draining. It wouldn’t matter so much with the smaller ones, that are just for bathrooms and such. Our basement is just one, big, wide-open room, so we would definitely need a big one.

Another thing you need to consider is where you will have the dehumidifier, because, you might need a quieter one if it is going to be in earshot of any bedrooms. All of our bedrooms are over the basement, but, for some odd reason, the noise from down there is loudest in our master bedroom. Mark will go down there on schoolnights when the kids and I are in bed and watch his shoot ’em up action movies and drive me crazy! So yeah, I’d want to find a very quiet dehumidifier. Who knows, though, maybe it could act as white noise against those movies! Nah, that wouldn’t work – Mark would have to turn the movies up even louder to hear! Ok, so I would want a very quiet one!

The only problem is that I don’t know if I could ever convince my husband that this is really necessary. You know how guys are when it comes to accepting new ideas or new concepts that they hear from their wives. The best thing to happen would be that one of his buddies decides that this is a great idea for their house, and then shares that information with Mark! Winking 2

Should The Veterinarian ‘Dip’?

We finally got to take my sweet boy – the one on the magazine cover over there – to the doctor for his ear infection. The veterinarian was a really nice guy. The place was sort of run-down, but, his prices are much lower than the vets with the fancy building. Hmm… fancy building – high prices, regular, ordinary, in need of a little repair, sorta like most of the houses we live in building – lower prices. We picked the smarter choice.

The man obviously cares about the animals, that was totally apparent. He worked with us to try to make sure we understood all that he was telling us. He even went so far as to help us clean out Puppy’s ears, which took quite a while and made quite a mess – water and soap and such flung everywhere by my sweet boy. LOL

He quizzed me repeatedly to make sure I understood the course of treatment – a little nerve-wracking, as he was giving us a lot of information, but, very thorough and caring of him to do.

So we like the guy, right? You get that, right? Ok.

Well, it was a super casual atmosphere, I hope I’ve conveyed that. One in which Mark and I are very comfortable. Here’s the thing, though. The guy had a dip in his mouth. And he would spit in the trash cans.

Did he take ‘casual’ too far? Or is this par for the course with small town country doctors? Do you think there would be some kind of health-code violation? I mean, of course, he wouldn’t do so in surgery. And we were just cleaning out the dog’s ears. What do you think?

I’m undecided. It definitely put us on a more peer-to-peer relationship, which I think was great, considering so many docs and vets are on ‘I am God trips’.

But did he go too far? Hmm…

Watching TV online – woohoo!

Just go here: http://www.surfthechannel.com/show/television/Weeds.html

http://www.hulu.com/watch/23816/raising-arizona

The Ugliest Mailbox in Town

I really did think we had the ugliest mailbox in town. I’m serious – this thing is bad. Our house was built in 1961, and I’m telling you, this has to be the original mailbox! It is pitiful – utterly pitiful. Someone has rigged it up with a steel pole next to the original pole, to strengthen its rusty self. The two poles are tied together with some metal wire. And then, I just noticed recently that part of it is actually held together with twist ties! Twist ties! You know, the kind that come on your bread bags! And God bless him, but, the name on the side of the mailbox – he’s been passed away for EIGHT YEARS! Crazy, huh?

So I’m always making fun of and joking around about our mailbox, positive that we must have the ugliest mailbox in town. The other day, however, we were driving around town – and my daughter yells out from the backseat, “Look, Mom! Their mailbox is uglier than ours!” And I excitedly replied, “Well, look at that – it sure is! Ha! What do you know about that?” Haha! And since then I’ve seen a few more super ugly mailboxes.

I came up with a great plan to start photographing all of the ugliest, most rickety mailboxes we come across. Well, now – wouldn’t that be a collection? I’ve really no idea what I’d do with such a collection, but, it sounded like a good idea… uh… yeah.

As you can imagine, then, my eyes are always peeled for the perfect mail box. There was a time I really liked the plastic ones – the ones that sort of resembled the children’s backyard play structures. A lot of them were actually made by the same company. I can’t remember the name of it now. I’ve grown weary of that style, though. I’m not really sure exactly what kind I want.

My uncle had an awesome one once, years ago, that was an exact replica of his house. That thing was so cool! He had to replace it rather quickly – I can’t remember if kids kept messing with it, or if it was just too fragile. The thing was amazing, though! I wish I had a picture of it – I guess I could ask my cousins if they do.

The only thing that I’m sure about is that I want a mailbox that is rather large – on the inside. I get so sick of things being curled up and smashed to fit in my mailbox! That drives me crazy! I don’t want it to be so huge that it looks like a commercial mailbox, though – that would be really ugly.

The real bummer of the deal is that my husband is not at all concerned with this issue – while it’s been on my mind for quite some time. It’s just a total non-issue for him. I hope that changes before too long. I’d love to have an adorable, aesthetically-pleasing mailbox out front, in which I could maybe plant some flowers. Have you seen those kind? They are so cool!

27,000 Dead Cats and Dogs Every Year!


*UPDATE* Holy crap, people! That number – 27,000 – is only the CITY of Dallas! In the whole Dallas Metroplex, the number is actually 100,000!!!! Dammit – that made me cry just TYPING it out!!!!! /*UPDATE*

That is how many dogs and cats are euthanized in the Dallas area alone each year, due to pet overpopulation! Oh my gawd, people – that is too, too many! That is so horrible! I know that one year The Dallas Morning News did a feature (a multiple-page feature) on the pet overpopulation problem in the Dallas area and it was so very sad. Many of the people who work in the area shelters were interviewed and they talked about trash bag after trash bag after trash bag of animal carcasses that they constantly dealt with – a sobering piece, for sure!

Dallas Animal Advocates, a joint initiative between Companions for Life and Metroplex Animal Coalition, are a group of volunteers working tirelessly to make changes for our beloved furry family members in the Dallas area.

One of the things they are working on right now is getting a petition filled up with lots and lots of signatures, in an effort to encourage the Dallas City Council to approve the Animal Shelter Commission’s proposed mandatory spay/neuter – breeder registration ordinance. I’m gonna sign it (as soon as I figure out my care2 password), and I’m in Alabama (though I’m from Dallas) and I’ve seen plenty of other states represented on the petition. There is even a signature from Canada.

So I would love it if you would go and sign the petition, too! Just go here: Dallas City Spay/Neuter Ordinance to sign the petition – pretty please!! And send your family and friends there, too! Let’s help stop the needless killing of these precious animals!

Now I Need to Shop for Father’s Day

This time of the year feels like a long, drawn-out Christmas or something – we have so many gift-buying occasions in this family from April through July – it’s not even funny! Right now my focus is on Father’s Day and what to get for my father and my husband. I had decided on a box of brownies for my father, from this wonderful company in Huntsville, AL – since that’s what I got my mom. And the kids and I had decided on this cool thermometer for the grill for Mark. And then the kids changed their mind on the thermometer, and just today I’m thinking maybe I’ll do something different for my dad. Heh. I guess we gotta make things difficult! 😉

And I’m getting all of these emails – No Shipping for Father’s Day, 20% Off for Father’s Day, etc, etc… I was thinking, however, that I might look at clothing stores. I don’t know – Mark and my dad are probably two of the, no – they definitely are – the hardest people for me to shop for. Actually, I think my dad has gotten a lot easier – hmm, that’s weird – but, Mark is still a tough one.

There is a very helpful guide for buying men’s clothing online at ShopWiki. It’s almost like taking a guy with you into a store to help you pick something out for another guy. And it’s all divided up by categories, with a little helpful tidbit about each category underneath it, like this one:

Sunglasses can make you look really cool, or really dorky.

Haha! I love that – that they’re not all stuffy. It really does make it seem like someone is there helping you shop!

Mark is completely obsessed with watches right now, more specifically, watches that wind themselves. That might definitely be an option – although, I might be nervous picking one out, because, he is so picky. See? There’s that ‘hard to shop for’ thing, rearing its ugly head, gnashing its terrible teeth! I am sure, though, that if it was a gift from the kids and myself, he would love it, even if he does like to pick out his own watches.

My dad used to love these pageboy hats, and I always thought he looked so good in them. I wonder if he’d be interested in them again. I am having trouble finding any brown ones, though, and I know that would be the color he’d want – anywhere from brown to tan, probably.

I’m not sure what I’m going to do for either of them…it’s kind of fun shopping for them, though. Hey – how’d that happen? LOL Maybe it’s all the funny commentary on the ShopWiki site. Anyway, I’m not quite decided yet, and I’m not exactly sure how much I’m going to have to spend. So I’ll just keep looking around. There’s so much information on ShopWiki that I could look for days and not see it all.

If you’re searching for Father’s Day gifts, too – good luck with your search! Onward! Shop!

Summer’s here! Yea!

Summer is finally here! I’m so excited – I love summer! Even though I totally, completely bitch about the heat – I just love it! And even though I totally, completely bitch about the kids being underfoot, I love having them here!

We got off to a bit of a rocky start, with the boys fighting like mad the first ‘official’ day of summer – last Friday. And they were both, of course, mad at me all day – because, I never handle their fighting and whining and complaining to their liking. Well, guess what? TOO BAD! Ha! How’s that? I’m so sick of their being mortal enemies. I actually had the thought the other day that it would be cool to send them to a Outward Bound type of thing, so they could LEARN to rely on each other – maybe even experience a few dangerous moments, and realize how much they each mean to each other. Maybe if your brother is about to fall off a cliff – just maybe – you might realize you love him! Gah!!

Well, then we had a nice enough weekend together. We went to Music at McClellan on Saturday night to help the boys earn money for their band expenses. That’s a really fun event, and even though the kids are working their butts off – they have a blast! So that was cool.

On Sunday, we hung out together, playing games and such, then went to the park, and then went out to dinner. When we came home from dinner and got out of the car – I heard THEM! Woohoo! “Sammie! Listen!!!” I was so excited – it was my first time this year hearing them – the ‘summer bugs’!! Locusts, crickets, tree frogs – whatever else is up there in those HUGE trees around our house. Love, love, love that sound.

Yesterday was kinda rotten, as I was feeling horrible – woke up with a TERRIBLE crick in my neck, shoulder, AND back – it hurt so badly! And my tummy was acting up, to boot! So yesterday was a bummer.

Then today, I woke up feeling the pain in my shoulder again – totally bummed, because, I’d thought it was getting so much better. I took some medicine for it and got to work, going through emails, taking care of blogs, etc. And then suddenly, an hour ago – I realized – it’s gone. The pain is gone. Woohoo! It’s not completely gone – but, enough to make me feel normal – and for me to skip around (figuratively – don’t wanna set the migraine off…) happily celebrating, “It’s summer, it’s summer – the kids are home!”